Thursday, December 23, 2010

Envision the Change - And You Will Do It

Each year we treat Christmas as though it brought something new into our lives. A great deal of this has to do with gift giving, of course. But it is good to reflect on the reason for our feelings at this time of year, and on the whole concept of  having something new.

For the dedicated Christian, Christmas is a time to renew commitment to Christ. We are reminded of all that he gave up just so he could become one of us, a step down for him to be sure. It's also a time to take stock of our own life, of our own transformation, and what it might mean in concrete terms for me.

A friend of mine has been on a rather interesting journey of late, one that doesn't let her settle too long. This shift is rather dramatic because she spent over 20 years in one place and in one profession. But for the last ten years she has been on the move. Recently, she left her job, sold her home, and moved again. After a year, she found a Graduate course that spoke to her heart, decided to go on to Grad school, started looking for a new job and a new place to live. In the midst of all of this, she admitted she couldn't help but wonder about herself and her journey. Shouldn't one seek to be settled, secure, and rooted after a time? Why did her journey never seem to end, and what was "wrong" with her life that she couldn't seem to find peace in what she has done, but felt drawn to continue the search?

Just about this time she received a Christmas card from a former co-worker. In part, it read: It is so important to be true to yourself, and you have done this all along. I admire your courage & strength. Believe that you can have peace of mind & freedom to live the life you want. Believe that you will not only survive but you will thrive. I am excited for you. I can see the sparkle in your eyes & your beautiful smile. Your loving spirit stays in this place. You have touched many lives & you will continue to do so. Your path is as special as you are.

Such affirmation did a lot for my friend. It reminded her that even while she was questioning her own journey,  she was touching hearts and souls and spirits.

And so, what change do you envision this Christmas? And what are you willing to do to accomplish it?

 

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