The Soul in Search of Destiny

James Stafford says that  The greatest and noblest joy in life for a human heart is searching out, discovering and pursuing the purpose for which God has called her into existence. In other words, one's destiny.

For these words to apply to one's life,  one must always be in the mode of searching and seeking that calling. This is counter to our present day culture (indeed, all culture) which prefers security, roots, familiarity.  Do we not look with skepticism at someone who changes careers or moves to another location because "I  haven't found my place"? Is there not a tendency to think, "Just can't get settled. Restless soul. Has no roots. Must have lost heart."?

And yet, this soul is braver than the norm. This soul is one who doesn't just talk about destiny; she does all she can to find it in her life. And she won't be kept back by honors, power, or fame. She seeks to be where destiny wants her, and she will not rest until she finds it.

There is a difference between a soul who is searching out and discovering her purpose in life, and one who is just plain discontented. That one word is peace.

If you just cannot settle in life, you will wander endlessly. But if your inability to settle comes from something deep down, where you know you are not yet where you need to be, there will be a profound peace, despite the unsettled nature of your being.You will not move impetuously, but reflectively, watching for the right door to open, and able to move on when it doesn't. You also know, only you can discern what is right for you. Others may advise; but that is all they can do. You have to live out your decision, for only you know the depths of your heart, and though you are not adverse to criticism, you are not living according to what others think you should do. (Many times when people are not courageous enough to follow their own dream, they distract themselves by advising others!)

That's because one needs courage, faith, and trust to seek out one's destiny in this life. These are hardly the traits of a restless, discontented soul. To never stop seeking requires immense bravery; to step away from security to continue the search requires tremendous energy; and to refuse to settle for a mediocre life requires constant faith and love.

So, if you are one of these souls, be prepared to be labeled. In a society that rewards those content with status quo, praises those who remain in a secure setting, and looks with suspicion on visionaries, you will stand out. But don't you lose heart. When you find the love of your life, your destiny, you will experience a joy that none can take from you.